Honey, You’re Commitment Issues Are Fucking Killing You!
And, I Don’t Mean Your Commitments To Friends, Family and Lovers…
I’m talking about the lack of commitment you have to:
Your goals
Your dreams
Your desires
Your passions
Sure…
YOU SET GOALS
But you NEVER EVER follow through on them.
Fuck! Most of the time you don’t do anything more than say them out loud, let alone write them down or take actions that’ll make them real.
You set goals so grandiose, so humongous, that in your mind they are completely and utterly unachievable. Laughable.
You get into an overwhelm spin at the thought of them and your EGO MIND goes to town ranting at you constantly. Telling you that it simply doesn’t matter to you REALLY if you don’t achieve them.
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YOU HAVE DREAMS
Buried so fucking deep inside of you that you don’t even know what they are anymore. Or how to locate them. To tap into them. Bring them to front of mind.
Your head’s consumed by what others want for you. What society deems as realistic – or not.
Believing that what your HEROES want or what they achieve is what you truly want.
As you reflect on them you know, in your heart of hearts, that those dreams are not for you. That they hold no meaning. Have no substance. That you will never strive to achieve them.
YOU HAVE DESIRES
That you’ve spent a fucking lifetime suppressing. Because they were so BOLD that everyone you shared them with said you were crazy to want them as much as you did.
That they were:
- Impossible
- Unachievable
- Ridiculous
- Stupid
And, you tell yourself that you really don’t want much. That you don’t desire anything more than what’s acceptable. Other than what’s within reach.
Because you don’t want to be the one who makes other people uncomfortable. Feel insecure. Less than they are. Miserable.
When that is precisely how you feel.
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YOU HAVE PASSIONS
But you have kept them hidden. Stamped them down. Pushed them aside. To protect yourself from the harsh words of those. From their condemnation. Just so that you can fit in and be accepted.
Such deep, soul level passions that when you allow yourself a moment to think on them, they fill you with more joy, wonder and excitement than you feel in ANY AREA of your life right now.
You’ve been told you CAN’T oh so MANY FUCKING TIMES. By SO MANY FUCKING PEOPLE. For SO FUCKING LONG.
You dare not stay true to you – ever – because that’s just not how things are done.
You must self-sacrifice so that those around you can have all that they desire…
You must not want more than you have because it’s selfish… greedy…
What you want, desire, care about; simply doesn’t matter.
That you believe it (on a surface level).
AND THAT’S BULLSHIT.
To truly be committed to YOU.
You must take action towards your goals.
You must work to make your dreams your reality.
You must hold fast and pursue your desires.
You must fight for what you’re passionate about.
EVERY FUCKING DAY!
That stuff that gets your juices flowing; what excites you…
THEY ALL MATTER SO MUCH MORE THAN YOU REALISE.
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More than you want to admit.
If you don’t commit to:
- Achieving your goals
- Making your dreams real
- Fulfilling your deepest desires
- Being true to your heart felt passions
You fucking let them win!
BUT WORSE
You die a little. Painfully. Slowly. On the inside. EVERY FUCKING DAY!
Commit wholly and solely to YOU and you can have EVERYTHING!
