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I see it every single day with the women I work with. With the women in my tribe. With the women in my community. Women I’m connected with…

I see it in the creators.
I see it in the visionaries.
I see it in the spiritual.

The leaders.
The messengers.
The entrepreneurs.

Even myself, some days.

Always striving.
Always pushing.
Always stretching.
Always expanding.

Always growing.

Why?

So we feel like we are… ENOUGH!
So we can get back to being the person we were born to be.
So we can reclaim ourselves, our authenticity, our worth, our deserving, our belief…

In who we are.
In our passions.
In our desires.
In our purpose.

In life.

BUT WHY DO WE EVEN NEED TO DO THAT? ANY OF THAT?

Because even though we were born into our human forms whole, complete, perfect in every way…

Throughout our lives…
Especially in the early years…

That wholeness.
That completeness.
That perfection.

Was tarnished.
Was diminished.
Was stripped away.

By the things people did to us.
By the things people said to us.
By the things that happened around us.
By the things we were forced to witness.

To experience.
To feel.

By people who knew no better.
By people who were mindless.

Manipulative.
Cruel.
Hardened.

Because of the things they had done to them.

That were said to them.
That happened around them.
That they had witnessed.
That they had experienced.
That they had felt.

By people who knew no better.
By people who were mindless.

Manipulative.
Cruel.
Hardened.

BECAUSE IT IS CYCLIC

And it’s been that way for centuries.
For ever.

All of that stuff – whether we intend it to or not – creates a set of behaviours, thoughts and belief systems and values within us that shape us into becoming the person we are…

Until we get to a certain point.
The game-changing point.

Until we get to that point in life when we realise that ALL OF THAT STUFF isn’t us at all.
Until we get to that point in life when we decide that NONE OF THAT STUFF, that ALL OF THAT STUFF, simply doesn’t fit us.

That it’s not aligned with us.
That it’s not true for us.
That it doesn’t belong to us.
That it is not us.

And one thing most people don’t know.

One thing that most people are unaware of.
One thing that most people never learn.

Is that that stuff – all of that stuff…

The thoughts
The behaviours
The beliefs

They were never, ever yours.

They were handed to you by your parents, your teachers, your society.
Gifted to you (and Oh what shitful gifts they are!!).
By the time you were 7 years old.

So.

Regardless of the fact that you were born full of self-belief.

Believing in your self-worth.
Believing you were deserving.
Believing in your desires.
Believing you could accomplish anything.
Believing in your passions.
Believing in your creativity.
Believing in your purpose.
Believing in WHO YOU FUCKING ARE and…
Believing in WHAT YOU ARE FUCKING CAPABLE OF…

Someone told you that you’re not worthy.
Someone told you that you’re not deserving.
Someone told you that you couldn’t be, do and have what you desired.
Someone told you that you couldn’t accomplish that thing you believed you could.
Someone told you that your passions meant nothing.
Someone told you that being an artist, a writer, a creative, held no place in society.
Someone told you that your purpose was bullshit.
Someone told you that you weren’t the person you believed yourself to be.
Someone told you that you were not capable of being, doing or having something.

And.

YOU JUST STOPPED. YOU COMPLETELY STOPPED.

You were forced to stop.

Believing in your fucking awesomeness.

Because what you believed.
Because what you desired.
Because what you wanted.
Because what you cared about.
Because your creativity.
Because your purpose.
Because who you are.
Because what you wanted to achieve.

Was out of alignment with who they were – they being your parents, siblings, friends, teachers, leaders… they being your fucking society.

Because all of that stuff triggered their own feelings of lack:

Lack of self worth
Lack of deserving
Lack of self-love
Lack of ambition
Lack of passion
Lack of creativity
Lack of purpose
Lack of self
Lack of desire

And because your belief in your own awesomeness triggered those feelings of lack.

They could see how diminished they had become.
How small they had allowed themselves to become.

They could feel the emptiness in their heart and in their soul.
Where those things you had once lived in them too.

And the light you shined on them and their lack was bright that it blinded them…

With emotions.
With rage.
With anger.
With self-pity.

You being your a-fucking-mazing self.
You being your authentic self.
You being worthy.
You being deserving.
You believing.

Reflected back to them the THEM that they once were. And that reflection hurt them so, it stuck a blow to their very core.

They got more emotional.
They got angrier.
They raged more.
They felt sorry for themselves more.

And so they beat you down more…

Verbally
Emotionally
Mentally
Even physically

Most of the time not knowing what was driving them to say the things they said.

Most of the time not knowing why they felt the need to fuck with your emotions like they did.

Most of the time not knowing why they wanted to manipulate your thinking like they did.

Most of the time not knowing why they struck out at you physically like they did.

And that’s when it happened for you.

That’s when it became normal for you to be less than.
That’s when it became normal for you to feel less than.
That’s when it became normal for you to say less than.
That’s when it became normal for you to do less than.

Because they broke you.

They broke your spirit.
They tortured your soul.
They damaged you at a core level.

(Well… That’s what they tried to do!)

But the thing is.

All of that stuff.
Every. Fucking. Horrible. Bit. Of it.

HAPPENED FOR A REASON

Or I mean, several reasons!

So you could see the polarity in the contrast of forced beliefs and real.
So you could see the difference between those who are blind and ignorant to the truth and those who are not.

So you could shine brighter.
So you could rise higher.
So you could serve better.
So you could impact massively.
So you could transform deeper.
So you could disrupt bigger.

Because even though they intentionally or otherwise tried:

To dim your light.
To remove your worthiness.
To stamp down your deserving.
To shame you out of your truth.
To dumb-down your message.
To suppress your creativity.
To diminish your desires.
To kill off your passions.
To stifle your purpose.

They could not do that.
They cannot do that.

And nor can you.

Because those things are born into you.
Because those things are ingrained in you.
Because those things are bigger than who you are.

And the reason all of that stuff:

Felt so wrong for you.
Felt incongruent to you.
Felt out of alignment to you.

Is because it was.

And the reason that now when you try to convince yourself that you are LESS THAN by not:

Showing up every day as your badass self.
Speaking your truth and sharing your message.
Demonstrating your unique level of awesomeness.
Loving yourself in every way, in all ways, always.
Claiming those things that you desire deep down.
Honouring your creativity, your writing, your art.
Pursuing your passions and living your life on purpose.

Is because you have not yet given yourself permission to release that shit – the other peoples’ shit, society’s shit …

That never has and that does not serve you.
That isn’t aligned with you.
That is incongruent with who you are.
That isn’t and never was your stuff.
That isn’t who you are.
That isn’t who you were born to be.

Because.
Deep down.

A part of you still believes that honouring those broken souls who tried (intentionally or otherwise) to break you…

Is more important than honouring your-fucking-self.

And.

My love.
My gorgeous sweet love.

THAT IS COMPLETE AND UTTER BULLSHIT!

Which is why you still feel so very torn!

That is what they would have you believe.
That is what they would have you to.

And.
Again.

The reason that feels:

Out of alignment.
Incongruent.

IS BECAUSE IT FUCKING IS!

Because NONE OF THAT STUFF is you.
Because NONE OF THAT STUFF is yours.
Because NONE OF THAT STUFF is why you were born.

To release it you must go inward.

You must do the internal work.
You must ask yourself all the questions.

All the tough questions you resist asking.

The questions the others always have and always will refuse to ask themselves.

Why?

Because.

My love.
My gorgeous sweet love.

You are not less than.
You are more than.

BECAUSE YOU ARE ALREADY MORE THAN ENOUGH!

And your higher self is waiting for you to reach out, to go deep within, and to connect.

So you can rise so fucking high and shine so fucking bright.
Together.

There are people out there – right now – waiting for you.
There are people out there – right now – who need you.
There are people out there – right now – seeing you out.

IT’S TIME – NOW!

To release ALL OF THE THINGS that have you believing and feeling that you are less than.

IT’S TIME – NOW!

For you to unleash and to show up as the biggest, boldest, most authentic expression of yourself that you can be.

RIGHT NOW!

Your tribe.
Your higher self.
The Universe.

Are ready to receive you!

Remember… You Have One Life.  Hit The Fuckin’ Button!

Love, Truth & Badassery,

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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