If and when you get to a point where you don’t like the place, the situation, the clients or the experience that you have chosen, you can change your mind.
You can choose again.
You see…
That’s one of the many beautiful things about being human and having a mind that you can make decisions.
Every. Single. Time.
You make a decision and then you realise that that decision doesn’t serve you in the way you had hoped it would.
Or perhaps you made that decision and it served you for some time you get to choose to decide again.
There is absolutely nothing and no-one who can stop you.
Who has the right to after all?
No-one
Except for you.
As human beings.
As entrepreneurs.
As leaders.
We are decision makers by nature.
But someone.
At some time.
Decided.
That because you have made a decision, you cannot possibly choose to decide again.
WHAT THE FUCK IS WITH THAT?
I’m calling bullshit on it right here. Right now.
No matter which decision you choose to make.
YOU CAN A.L.W.A.Y.S. CHOOSE AGAIN
Our choices, our decisions are made to serve us for ‘x’ amount of time.
Our choices, our decisions are made to serve us for ‘y’ reason.
Our choices, our decisions are made to serve us for ‘z’ purpose.
Let me give you a working example of this.
When I first started as an entrepreneur it was with a Virtual Assistant business. After 8 years I wrapped that business up and sold it in 2016.
I WAS DONE WITH IT
But was I?
I’d stopped enjoying it.
I’d outgrown it.
It no longer made me happy.
I didn’t enjoy my products.
I didn’t love my clients.
And on top of that for the 3 years prior to (finally) deciding to sell that business, I had been working on another business.
This business.
My coaching and mentoring business.
Which is my true love.
Where I had discovered my true purpose.
But.
One client remained.
They were a carry-over.
Because I could still provide them with the quality of service they had grown accustomed to with minimal interference to what I was now doing.
But.
IT WAS MORE THAN THAT
I felt an obligation to those clients.
I felt I had to remain loyal to them.
I felt that I couldn’t let them go.
But why?
WHAT WAS THE REASON I FELT THAT WAY?
Why was I hell bent on resisting the change that was inevitable?
Necessary?
Well, there were a couple really.
The clients in question were a close connection to one of my childhood friend.
And.
They were my last connection to my first ever business.
To my first baby.
To first escapade into entrepreneurship.
To something that taught me so much.
To what delivered me to where I am today.
I was clinging to the last vestiges of two things that I held dear to my heart.
And.
I resisted letting go of because for so long it had been a big part of who I was.
My identity.
But in holding on to those clients I was also continuing a cycle of doing things that weren’t serving me.
I was holding on to the past.
I was holding on to what no longer was.
I was keeping myself attached to something that didn’t even exist anymore.
In doing so I was keeping myself playing a smaller game than I deserved to be playing.
Than I desired to be playing!
Than I was born to play!
And I was holding on for dear life to a friendship from the past which, if I am completely honest, and I always aim to be, disappeared out of my life over 25 years ago, only to reappear about 6 years ago with the same level of false sincerity and give-a-fuckery.
I was holding on to something that, in truth, never really was.
I was holding on to an illusion of what used to be.
I was holding on to something that had nothing left to give.
I WAS CUTTING OFF THE NATURAL FLOW OF UNIVERSAL ENERGY
My connection with happiness, success and abundance.
But despite that… I didn’t want that to end.
I was afraid to let it.
Until I wasn’t.
I RESISTED MY OWN TRUTH AND ALLOWED MYSELF TO SUFFER
I could see what was happening.
I really did want it to stop.
I knew that it was absofuckinglutely time.
And I knew…
That it was way past time.
So.
I meditated on it.
I journaled on it.
And what kept coming up for me.
What was constantly showing up.
Was that:
There was only one way to go about this.
There was just one thing for me to do.
AND SO I DECIDED TO CHOOSE AGAIN
To open up myself to new and exciting experiences.
To stake my claim on the life that I had wanted.
That I had craved.
That I truly desired.
Because to get to that point.
To get to that place.
I needed to release the old and welcome in the new so that I could FULLY live this life that I have been given.
In all its glory.
No matter what.
And.
To do that I needed to deep dive into, become aware of and give myself permission to let go of any resistance that I held around it.
I HAD TO SET MYSELF FREE FROM IT
And for those who cannot accept my decision to choose again.
To put myself and my wants, needs and desires first.
That’s fine.
I have no problem with that.
Because that is your stuff.
Not mine.
I have done both the internal and the external work around this.
And I’m more than good with the choice I have made.
Because there’s one thing I’ve learned in my 44 years on this beautiful earth is that what comes must also go.
That nothing is permanent.
That nothing is meant to last forever.
Except life.
That is eternal.
Perhaps not the exact life that you are living right now.
But life in itself.
Keeps on going.
So.
Now gorgeous one.
I ASK YOU…
What are you holding on to that is no longer serving you?
Where in your life do you need to release the old and welcome in the new?
What new choices and decisions do you need to make so you can open yourself up to being in a position to allow into your life that which you truly desire?
And.
Possibly the two biggest questions for you to answer…
What are you AFRAID of?
What’s the worst thing that could happen if you DID decide to CHOOSE again?
I ENCOURAGE YOU TO DIG DEEP. TO GO DEEPER.
To do the internal and the external work.
To release those things what have stopped serving you since you made your initial choices and decisions.
So you can open yourself up to allowing the Universe to deliver to you that which you desire the most.
So you can set yourself free!
Love, Truth & Badassery,
Remember… You Have One Life. Hit The Fuckin’ Button!
Lauz xx
Mindset & Online Empire Creation Mentor
P.S. Are you tired of sticking with choices and decisions that serve others but not yourself?
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