How dare they?
What gives them the right?
What makes them think they can do that?
How presumptive of them to think that you’re interested?
I have to laugh at you.
At myself also, in truth.
Because the introvert in you causes you to cringe when you’re sitting at a cafe and someone speaks to you.
Wanting to strike up conversation.
Generic words that mean nothing to you.
How rude are you?
I mean really?
But is it?
I don’t think so.
It’s just who you are.
It’s not that you don’t like people.
It’s just hat you don’t like people.
That’s a complete contradiction now, isn’t it?!
The thing is my sweet one.
It is true.
You genuinely do like people.
In fact you truly love them.
YOU WANT TO BE ABLE TO PICK AND CHOOSE WHEN YOU ALLOW THEM INTO YOUR SPACE
Into your circle.
Into your conversation.
Into your energetic sphere.
You’re so used to being on your own.
To your own company.
That when someone imposes themself on you.
That when someone inserts themself into your presence bubble.
You feel as thought it could burst.
And you just want to run and hide.
Well, maybe not run.
But. Then. Maybe. Run.
Have you ever really thought about why you feel this way?
Have you ever really thought about why you like your own company so much?
I mean, after all.
You have friends.
You have a lover.
You have children (maybe).
You have clients.
AND YOU TRULY HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THEM BEING NEAR
Being around you.
Speaking to you.
Breathing in your air.
In fact, you welcome it.
YOU WISH THEY’D JUST LEAVE YOU BE
But the thing is, gorgeous one.
That when they speak to you.
You feel compelled to reply.
Because it’s impolite not to.
(But is it? Really?)
And when you’re in a ‘family’ environment and someone cuddles you whom you just don’t like. Aren’t aligned with in any way.
Your skin crawls.
Your judgements come out.
You wish to God they’d just leave you alone.
And you want nothing more than to leave.
To return to your own space.
But you don’t.
But you say nothing.
Instead, you reciprocate because that’s the polite thing to do.
Because you don’t want to be dramatic, to cause a scene.
All the fucking the social constructs you’ve been conditioned to believe, to live by, consume you and take over what you want.
So you do what is expected of you.
AND ONCE YOU DO THAT
You’ve ripped the lid off.
You’ve basically given them permission to speak.
You’ve told them that it’s alright to greet you with a cuddle and a kiss.
Purely for the sake of moving their lips.
To fill a void somewhere within them.
A void that you just don’t have.
That you just don’t need to fill.
Until you can’t take it anymore and you just want to retreat within yourself.
At least in there.
Inside of you.
They can’t get to you.
They can’t speak to you.
They can’t touch you.
You will be left alone.
You will be in peace.
And you’re back in control.
You’re back in the drivers seat.
You’re again making choices that serve you.
You’re comfortable again.
You’re complete again.
You’re able to breathe again.
What fucking if?
You didn’t rip the lid off.
You didn’t give them permission to invade your space.
You didn’t give them permission to speak.
You didn’t give them permission to greet you in that way.
What is the worst thing that would happen?
How do you think you would feel?
What kind of problems would arise?
People would get their noses out of joint.
But isn’t that what’s happening to you when you don’t remain true to yourself?
When you don’t honour yourself?
When you allow them into your space?
People would think you were ignorant and rude.
But isn’t that what’s going on with you when you give people permission to speak?
When you don’t want them to speak to you?
When you disrespect yourself?
People would think you were arrogant and judgemental?
But isn’t that what you think and how you feel about them when they assume that it’s ok to touch you.
When they cuddle you?
When they kiss you?
So why is it wrong for you to choose that.
To choose what fees right for you.
To choose you.
I get it gorgeous one.
I absolutely do sweet one.
I know that at those times you feel torn.
You’re not sure what to do.
Because for your entire life you have been told to behave a certain way.
Because for your entire life you have been told to just ‘shut up’ and accept it
Because for your entire life you have been told to keep the peace.
Because for your entire life you have been told to make everyone happy.
Because for your entire life you have been told to do the polite thing.
WHY. THE. ACTUAL. FUCK.
Is it more important that you respect:
Other peoples wishes.
People you don’t like.
Than it is to respect yourself?
So what if you didn’t?
Can you imagine what your life would look like?
Can you imagine how empowered you would feel?
Let’s be honest.
You really don’t give a fuck what someone else thinks of you.
WHY IS THAT THOUGH?
It is purely because…
What somebody else thinks about you is none of your business.
What somebody else thinks about you is all about them.
It’s got absofuckinglutely nothing to do with you.
What somebody else thinks about you is about their own beliefs.
What somebody else thinks about you is about their own values.
What somebody else thinks about you is about their own opinions.
What somebody else thinks about you is about their own judgements.
What somebody else thinks about you is about their own expectations.
What somebody else thinks about you is about their own social conditioning.
My sweet one.
What fucking if?
You put yourself first.
You put your beliefs first.
You put your comfort first.
You put your desires first.
You put your happiness first.
What if you fucking honoured yourself first and foremost?
What if you fucking stood firmly and steadfastly in your own power?
I’m really going there.
And I’m doing it because I know that you really want to.
Because I know that you are hoping that I do go there.
What if instead of you recoiling in fear?
What if instead of you feeling the apprehension building inside at the sheer horror of it all…
What if it wasn’t you at all?
What if it was them?
Love, Truth & Badassery,
Remember… You Have One Life. Hit The Fuckin’ Button!
Mindset & Online Empire Creation Mentor
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